Being a father is really hard. I know it’s the biggest responsibility that anybody could have. People expect a lot from me as a father. At first, it wasn’t easy for me to adapt to this kind of life, but when I think of my children, it drives me to give them only the best.
Having three kids really means a lot. It makes me think about how I will raise them since my life now is far different from the life I'm used to. Before, my life had no direction. I was always with my friends, hitting the bars and partying all night. Until I realized it wasn't good. Despite the fact that I wasn't saving any money, I wasn't also earning respect from myself as a father.
So, I changed my lifestyle and became a part of the Philippines' BPO industry. I'm earning more than the minimum salary. It may not be that much for three kids, but I'm sure it's quite enough to provide for their daily needs.
Well, if before I could stay up all night at bars, same in my night-shift job, but it’s worth it. And when I get home, I always make sure that I spend time with my kids. I don’t even mind the pressure at work. Instead, it challenges me to do better and better each day.
This is the best thing that has ever happened to me because not only am I having fun with my job, but I’m also proving to myself and the people around me that I’m a responsible father.